A Nigerian student has sparked widespread online discussions and emotional reactions after sharing his heart-wrenching experience of choosing a university because of his girlfriend, only to discover that she is now dating another student at the same institution.
The young man, whose story quickly went viral on social media, revealed that he had carefully planned his higher education path while in SS3 to stay close to his girlfriend. He hoped their relationship would continue smoothly after secondary school, making his eventual heartbreak even more poignant.
“I picked this school because my girlfriend was coming here,” he admitted. “At first, I thought I wouldn’t get admission, but I did. Now she has a boyfriend in 400 level, and I’m just here focusing on my education.” The statement captured the frustration, disappointment, and emotional turmoil he experienced, resonating with many young people who have faced similar situations.
The post highlighted the delicate balance between youthful love and personal ambitions, illustrating how early romantic decisions can sometimes cloud judgment in critical life choices such as selecting a university.
Mixed Online Reactions
The story attracted hundreds of comments, with social media users expressing a range of emotions from sympathy to amusement and criticism. Many empathized with the student, recognising the pain of unrequited love and the feeling of betrayal when trust is broken.
One commenter humorously remarked, “You followed her for love, she followed senior man for lunch,” pointing out the ironic twist in his efforts. Others, however, viewed the experience as a lesson in prioritising personal growth over emotional attachments. “Make the guy focus on building his career abeg, that girl fit later get belle and drop out of school,” wrote another user, encouraging him to focus on academics and long-term success.
Some commentators criticized the student for naivety, suggesting he allowed emotions to dictate his decisions. “This man shouldn’t be called a man because he acts like a boy and doesn’t understand women’s nature,” one user harshly commented, sparking debates on emotional maturity and decision-making in relationships.
[b]Encouragement for Self-Improvement
Beyond the jokes and criticism, many Nigerians took the opportunity to encourage the student to channel his heartbreak into personal growth. Users advised him to focus on education, career development, and self-improvement as a way to transform disappointment into motivation.
“Focus on yourself, make money online, and prioritise your academics. That’s the best revenge. When you’re successful, women will naturally come,” one commenter suggested, reflecting a common sentiment among social media users that personal success is the most empowering response to emotional setbacks.
The viral post has since become a conversation starter about the impulsive decisions people make in the name of love and the importance of maintaining focus on one’s goals, especially during critical life transitions like entering university. Many saw it as a cautionary tale for young people to weigh emotions carefully against future aspirations.
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Man shares his frustration for picking the same university as his girlfriend because of love, now he's got admission to the school but his girlfriend is now dating a 400 level guy 😭😭 pic.twitter.com/0xJymlALA4
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