Nigerian singer and songwriter, Seyi Shay, has finally opened up about her relationship status, providing clarity on why she is not married to the father of her daughter despite their strong and enduring bond.
In an in-depth conversation with media personality Chude Jideonwo, the award-winning artiste revealed that her choice to remain unmarried was both a personal and practical decision. She described the situation as “technical,” explaining that it was made after careful consideration of their individual circumstances and shared goals for their daughter’s upbringing.
Seyi Shay emphasised that, while they are not legally married, she and her child’s father maintain a deep respect and understanding for one another. Their connection, she noted, is grounded in friendship, co-parenting, and shared responsibilities, rather than societal pressures or traditional expectations.
“We have a strong bond, mutual respect, and a healthy partnership. Marriage is not part of our current plans, but that doesn’t change how supportive we are of each other or the way we raise our daughter,” she explained, highlighting that their priority is the well-being and happiness of their child.
Co-parenting with love, respect, and collaboration
Expanding on her approach to parenting, Seyi Shay described their co-parenting arrangement as one rooted in love, communication, and respect. She noted that the father of her child, who is Nigerian and currently residing in the UK while working in the music industry on the corporate side, is actively involved in their daughter’s life.
“He’s great, he’s cool, he’s around, and we work closely to ensure our daughter grows up in a loving and supportive environment. Our co-parenting is built on trust, understanding, and a shared commitment to her well-being,” Seyi Shay said, emphasizing that their collaboration allows them to maintain balance and peace in their relationship despite not being married.
She also pointed out that maintaining a healthy and positive co-parenting dynamic has been instrumental in managing societal expectations and avoiding unnecessary pressures or judgments from the public.
Motherhood reshaping priorities and perspectives
Since welcoming her daughter in 2022, Seyi Shay shared that motherhood has profoundly changed her outlook on life, relationships, and her career in the entertainment industry. The singer explained that becoming a mother has made her more intentional about the decisions she makes, helping her prioritize love, personal growth, and purpose over external societal pressures.
“Motherhood has transformed me. It has helped me focus on what truly matters—being present, making thoughtful choices, and guiding my daughter with love and intention. Every day is a learning experience,” she said, reflecting on how her journey as a parent influences her growth as a woman and an artist alike.
The singer, renowned for hits like Right Now and Yolo Yolo, added that this new chapter in her life has inspired her to approach her career with renewed focus, balancing professional ambitions with the responsibilities of motherhood, all while fostering a supportive and loving environment for her child.
Seyi Shay concluded by reiterating that her personal choices, including the decision not to marry, are made with mindfulness, love, and the best interests of her family in mind, showing that strong relationships and successful co-parenting do not necessarily require traditional marital structures.